It’s kinda nice to hear you say that. I’ve spent years being so self conscious about myself, and my family, even though they know how sensitive I am about food and weight and figures, will still tease me. My mum has never minced her words so I know what she thinks of my body. I’ve been through the overexercising, the ana, the mia, and now I’m back trying to do a combo of all three, but I can’t lose weight.
However, they use different nonsurgical techniques to break up fat cells and encourage your body to naturally eliminate them. The skin may not return to its previous state through targeted weight loss either. Procedures like gastric bypass surgery may leave behind a “pooch” or result in drooping skin above the pelvic area. When people mention a “fat vagina,” they’re usually referring to the fleshy area above the labia .
It has been and continues to be a beautiful and painful process. I am learning myself better than I have ever had to before. So…to get to the question, I stopped dating a few months ago. I tried to date initially, Mequeres but realized that I just didn’t have space for it. This process is a selffish one and I couldn’t share myself with anyone else while I was still trying to know and understand myself and changing body.
It made me feel as if I’m not doing good enough even though many people already have complemented me on how great I look. That day, I couldn’t keep my mind of that “FAT” comment he made about me. I love that you shared your story, thank you!
I remember crying myself to sleep because of this. And i started working out from 2 days with a lot of exercising and eating a lot less but its hard. I have to be as others tell me to be.I lost a kilo in 2 days but i don’t feel like myself anymore.
This can result in a healthier lifestyle too. I don’t think it is something I will ever get over- the pain of being called fat when I know I’m not really hurts. I’ve aimed toward being more healthy and incorporating exercise into my daily routine. But the point is, it keeps cropping up over time and it doesn’t make it hurt any less each time. The only thing we can really do is to keep moving on after the pain.
“Society gives us the message that we are not okay as we are. It’s hard to recognize these messages because it’s the cultural water we swim in, which makes us believe it’s the truth,” she says. It took several years for Selby learned to how to love and accept herself, and she acknowledges the barriers our culture has, barriers which damage and shame women.
I even recall my sister once saying to her husband “Oh aren’t you happy I am not fat.” WTF are you serious? Yes, I am a lot thicker than she is but damn that was so offensive. Especially, that time was finals week so I did have a minor weight gain. I can never compare myself to my sisters, mother, or friends.
You begin by removing yourself from that person or the situation that is making you feel horrible. You are still amazing, regardless of what you look like. (Remember how content I was before that girl called me fat?) If you choose to change your physical appearance/lose weight, then do it with passion and know that you’re doing it for the right reasons. Find happiness in your day to day struggles and happiness when you reach your destination. Life is too short to be sad over things like this. Just keep remembering that you are resilient and that you can conquer anything you put your mind to.
Being called fat to me is like somebody telling you that you should kill yourself. Now, now, what do you mean that you don’t think you’ll ever eat again? You’re on this page because you’re a popsters and popsters lose weight in a healthy way, my dear. 😉 Be patient, follow Cassey’s adive, maybe her workout calendar or meal-plan and don’t let comments like this one get to you. People can be cruel and careless in what they say. Don’t takie it too personally, honey.
I tend to attract the men who want to use me because I’m a bigger girl they automatically think they are about to live off of me which has never and will never happen. I can’t wait to see what life will be like on the other side when I get down to my goal weight . I haven’t been that small since maybe middle school.
